“The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.” ― Bob Marley ;)

~Can't stop DAYDREAMING~

Hello dear fellas' .

I can't STOP DAYDREAMING about them . LOL
I wish I could be by their side BUT I just couldn't .
Well, its just a dream btw.
I never mention I want to marry them. 
Wakakakaka .
Hey girls out there, don't ever HOPE to marry them.
Just DREAM it - like i did. ;)

The KOREANS lahh~ 


This is one of THEM.
Its my Park Kyung <3

Speaking of DREAM, what actually dream is?
What define DREAM?
What is the differentiation between DREAM & HOPE?

Let's check it out :


According to Mr. GOOGLE's search:
A Dream is a series of images projected into a area of the brain so we can view them as we sleep. We haven’t got control over the images projected but we can have control of our interactions.

Yeah, that's what Mr. Google said.

For me:
Dreams are one of my favorite things to study. 
One reason we have dreams is to sort of defragment and sort information much the same way your computer does. It helps us to get rid of un wanted or un needed info that we gathered during the day. But there are different types of dreams just like there are different stages of sleep. The average defrags. Dream can occur several times during the night and last usually 5 to 30 minutes. They are often filled with distorted or rapidly changing familiar places, people, and surroundings.These dreams are soon forgotten after awakening. But what about dreams that are so realistic that you feel like you were actually someplace else? This is called lucid dreaming and is the most strange of all. These often become a part of your permanent memory. I myself on the average will have a lucid dream about six times a year. The coolest thing about these dreams is the places you can end up in that you have never been before and the people you have never met before. I have even had dreams with objects or machinery in them that seem to be other worldly.


I will say this; meditation is very helpful in understanding the dream state. With practice I have thought myself to see, hear, and go places at random that I cannot identify. I often record my meditations because I often fall to sleep during this time and I am trying to figure out at what point this happens. So far it seems there is a pattern to do with a certain sound and visual artifact that I experience at a certain level of concentration. Dreams are often due to stress as well, so keep that in mind. If something is really bothering us, we may have dreams to help us sort out our problems.

Then, what is HOPE?


From Wiki:
Hope is the emotional state which promotes the belief in a positive outcome related to events and circumstances in one's life. It is the "feeling that what is wanted can be had or that events will turn out for the best" or the act of "look[ing] forward to with desire and reasonable confidence" or "feel[ing] that something desired may happen".  Other definitions are "to cherish a desire with anticipation"; "to desire with expectation of obtainment"; or "to expect with confidence". In the English language the word can be used as either a noun or a verb, although hope as a concept has a similar meaning in either use. 

From Yahoo! Answer:
Hope is really just a feeling. When all is lost and you still think there is something to live for that is hope. Hope is living, hope is the one thing that sepatates us from animals. When we think something positive will happen to us, that is hope. When someone is thinking of suicide but decides that tomorrow is another day and that it can get better, that is hope. Hope is something to look forward to. 

Hope is a desire for something to happen, while expecting or being confident that it will come true. Hope also implies a certain amount of perseverence, believing that something is possible even when there is some evidence to the contrary. Hope may be directed toward something minor or towards something extremely significant. "False hope" is hoping for something that is extremely unlikely or unrealisic.

For me:
Hope is an emotional belief in the possibility of positive outcomes related to events & circumstances within one’s personal life. It implies a certain amount of perseverance – i.e, believing that sth is possible even when there is some evidence to the contrary. Beyond the basic definition, usage of the term HOPE follows some basic patterns which distinguish its usage from related terms. 

"Hope is a thing with feathers
That perches in the soul,
And sings the tune without the words,
And never stops at all.
And sweetest in the gale is heard;
And sore must be the storm
That could abash the little bird
That kept so many warm.
I've heard it in the chillest land,
And on the strangest sea;
Yet, never, in extremity
It asked a crumb of me." -- Emily Dickinson (1830 - 1886)

HOPE & DREAM are basically related to each other. But knowing that dream is better than hope. WHY? Because when you DREAM of sth that you wish for and you didn't get it to become true - you'll try try try & try to DREAM it over & over again. As for HOPE? Hoping for sth that you don't know if its will be yours are just hurting yourself. PLUS, if it end to be another FAILURE - HARAKIRI will it be. LOL
So, for all the hopers out there - don't HOPE too much. HAHAHA~ [Language pollution]

Anyhow, hope is hope - dream is dream.
It were all the same, related to each other.
No matter what you do, please be sure of your instinct.

DREAM is just a HOPE that you can't catch for. 
HOPE is just a DREAM you can't catch for! ;)

That's all for now.

Salam 1 malaysia, kalau suka sila LIKE~


payed said...

no use of dream n hope without the effort

Rika Xandera said...

indeed! :)

Mizz ErMa said...

i hope i can meet jang geun suk again! hihihi